ETHEREAL

ETHEREAL
JOURNEY THROUGH ETHEREAL

Thursday, 1 October 2015

Hypocrisis


If someone dressed up in a saree with belly jutting out, having a deep valley cut in the blouse, both front and back with thin pleats and risky strings which can undo the whole tedious two hour process in one pull, it is no big deal. This is part of our tradition and culture. At the same time, a girl dressed up in a lopsided crop top and ripped low waist jeans is incriminated just because she doesn't fall under the society's norms of selective modesty. Her exposed belly is provocative but saree does not buy stares.
One country where spirituality is propagated by feeding lifeless idols and driving away the hungry destitute.
Temples ask for men to remove their shirts and women to cover every inch of their body. A menstruating female is barred from entering a temple, when god himself bestowed the capability of creating life.
A place which lets criminals on the loose and victims behind bars.
Here my friend, you cannot talk to a stranger, but you can sleep with one after the extravagant trade of flesh and money, also known as marriage.
Where people blame rape on skimpy clothes and Chow Mein. Where the policeman beats up his own wife behind closed doors and goes out at night on patrol under the solemn pretext of moral policing.
Every tv show is about powerless women subdued under male dominance with misogyny at its very best.
A place where big bucks are shelled out on campaigning but not a single mouth is fed.
We have moved ten steps ahead in terms of technology and global standards of development but receded a thousand steps backwards when it comes to rationality. The journey to greater heights can't be hiked with haze of backward thoughts clouding our vision.
It is time we get out of the old redundant loop of traditions. No one moves ahead in reverse gear.
Break the hypocrisy and bend the traditions.


Saturday, 5 September 2015

Born appetite

                   
                 If you are setting goals, be true to yourself, get a reality check and accept your shortcomings. Excessive daydreaming over what you expect your life to be will take you far away from reality. It will go from building castles in the sky to sky rocketing self-expectations, eventually losing momentum to the truth.
                     Human psychology has always been intriguing. We always resort to escapism when it comes to uncomfortable situations. Living on the edge, we fail to acknowledge our biological pre-dispositions. Each one of us are wired differently. Every aspect is unique and and the permutation is entirely distinct. Our current status is an amalgamation of  genetic inheritance, financial and social conditions of upbringing, exposure received and how the chemicals in our brain respond. We do not choose any of this. The base of all the big inspirational stories are rooted in biology itself. The biological dispositions can be modified but not eliminated. If you lack creativity, there is no pushing yourself to be Picaso. There will be some compensation to the lacking traits. The equilibrium of talent is present, but lying undiscovered. There will be some other heightened quality which is not appreciated. 

                  Life is a lot like the food you order at the restaurant. If you follow the herd and order what others like best, you will be killing your own desire. It will only satisfy your hunger not your appetite. Impatience and ego is part of the appetizer part. If you have more of it, you will have no space for main course. You will not even get to the desert, because you are too full of your wrong choices. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach and way to his head is through his heart. So don't poison your desire. 

                  Be a donut
                  Wrap your individuality around you
                   And make the toppings scrumptious. 
Donut push your boundaries, expand it...


Monday, 24 August 2015

Hashtag Confused.

For all the folks who could use some motivation..
                We have all been taking the beaten path, blindfolded on a road with no map. Everything from daily little things to indispensable life decisions are seen as black and white. This is a 2 am thought that crosses the mind of a student bombarded by talks about big future plans chalked out by peers. The best way to cleanse your mind is to eliminate the inhibitions about the endless expectations people have of you. Set your own goals, your own expectations as realistic as they can be. Keeping in mind that the blame and the credit, both balls will always be in your court.
               Are you confused? Are success stories making you feel incompetent? Well, confusion is what helps you weigh out the good choices against the bad. Take bits and pieces of every thought and form a mosaic of what you are going to do with life. If something meaningful comes of it, put it up on every corner of your mind. Worship every tool needed to get there and channel all the positive energy towards it. It will be met with interference and criticism along the way but don't let that tie you down.                                                      Design your own fate.Make career choices based what you do best and not what the retrogressive system makes you do. Explore unconventional options through extensive research and reading. Sounds like some alien concept right? That is because we have this robotic approach towards everything - pre-programmed to make decisions completely devoid of intuition. Get in touch with your inner voice and cancel all the noise from beyond. Eliminate all kinds of pessimistic company and interact with people who have words of wisdom for you, who help you grow out of misery. Surround yourself with people who look out for you and be open to new ideas. Have heart to hearts with any confidant and explain your fears. A candid discussion will reveal that nothing has escalated beyond control and that it isn't too late to change the course. If you hold on to your problems and worries for a little longer and they will turn around.

Do not settle for less and make as many mistakes as you can. The only thing that will matter is that you chose the roads untravelled, scripted your own map and led your own ways.
RAGE IN THE AGE OF WORRY
                   

Saturday, 22 August 2015

Gone By the Wind




She stepped gently into the soft searing sand, as her skin pricked and heart cringed, her gaze was untouched.

Her eyes sailed to her love, sitting by the shore. He was watching the sunset, almost as if he consumed its charm.

As the wind teased her hair, she was treading deeper into him.

Now the curls draped her dreamy eyes, she could still paint a picture of him so vivid, so elegant and so alive that she couldn't care less about her beauty.

Her imagination flattered him so much that her strokes caressed his lips into a smile.

Her tender arms slowly cruised over her shyly arched lips, concealing her face, she smiled to herself.

Time stood still, the tides receded and the sands slipped under her feet when she released her sight.

The dusk has dawned over her heavy heart and the waved cradled her as she watched the night leave.

She slowly drifted into the sea but he was gone, gone by the wind and she couldn't fly.